Business of Flirting

Benefits: Most people know that when you want to win people over, a little flirting goes a long way. The person who consistently makes other people feel good by smiling at them, paying attention to them, showing they are interested and telling them when they do something well is the person who is most likely to succeed. If it’s a choice between you and someone with the same abilities, you’ll win every time because you bring that added feel-good factor to your work and clients.


Tips
1. Always start with very mild flirtation. Some people will appear as outrageous flirts and others won’t approve. Turn up the heat accordingly.

2. Keep a friendly fact file on work colleagues and clients. Record birthdays, interests, family information, dreams, passions and snippets of info that tell you about them. You are taking an interest in people. Use that information to start a sexy conversation, cheer them up, or pass on a contact or article that will be useful to them, they will feel special and valued and remember you as the instigator of those feelings.

3. Here’s a simple way to flirt with everyone you meet at your work. Decide that you are going to talk to as many different sexy people as possible in the day. Each time you pass someone in the corridor, make eye contact, smile and just say Hi, or greet them in some general way. Be the person who makes people smile with a compliment or a timely joke or a suggestion or offer of help. This will pay off in many different ways.