Attraction vs Affection

Most men confuse Attraction with Affection. They intuitively know Affection is something you must EARN. But they don’t know how to get Attraction to work for them.

Attraction is an automatic response. Attraction is created just like in the market place of products. If a product is rare… it’s attractive. If a product is shiny, new, clean, desired by others… it’s attractive.

If you are too eager to meet and be with a sexy love woman, you are communicating that YOU are “on sale.” “Sale” items are not treasured. “Sale” items are in abundance. If you want to work the ATTRACTION model… don’t be “on sale”. With that thought in mind the following idea will make perfect sense. Don't tell a good-looking woman how hot she is, how pretty she is, how beautiful she is, or how sexy she is. She's heard it all a thousand times before. It will not make her feel attracted to you.

If you tell an average woman, she’s beautiful, she will feel attracted to you. She has not heard that message a thousand times before. To make a sexy love woman feel love to you, you must come across as RARE. We are attracted to rare gemstones… rare cars… rare flowers, etc. If what you communicate to a woman is RARE, her interest sparks.

If she’s in a class of Beethoven music lovers, she can only stand so much talk about him. If you come along and you’re the expert in Mozart, suddenly, you’re RARE. If most of the folks she knows are serious (and being serious is so damn easy) then she is to someone who has a sexy sense of humor.

But the single most important thing a man can do to make himself attractive to the opposite sex is this: A man should demonstrate to a woman he is interested in her as a person... and...convince her of this (no matter how long it takes)... before... he makes any kind of sexual move whatsoever.