The First Date

first dateWHEN

Always go for a weeknight, Thursday is best. Most sexy love women will let go and stay out later on Thursdays. This is due to a widely held belief that there is only one more day of work left and that one can make it on less sleep and more booze. I also prefer weeknights, because if you are having fun you can stay out late with her. If it sucks you can always say “I’ve got a big meeting in the morning and have to get up early.” You can easily bail by 9 PM if she turns out to be a skank or a bitch. Have her meet you at 7 PM: that way she will have eaten already. Sexy love girls are always uncomfortable eating in front of guys they’ve just met. Never take her out to dinner until at least the third date.

WHERE

Have her meet you in a cool, funky bar that is not too loud. Never pick her up. Have her meet you there. This way she’ll feel more comfortable having her own car and you can also make an easy escape if necessary. Pick a table or corner of the bar where you can sit close to her. Avoid big booths, they make it hard to touch her.

HOW

There are several basics that every dude should follow on the first date:
1. Keep them Drinking
2. Don’t Say Anything Stupid
3. Make them Laugh
4. Touch Them Once In a While (use to emphasize a joke or point). This will show her that you are interested in her and break the ice.

I also like to buy them a shot to loosen them up for the first kiss. The easiest way to accomplish this is to wait until they go to the bathroom and order it while they’re gone. That way they can’t object. I recommend ordering something sweet and with a kick!